Juneau Highway Cleanup with Rainbow Pride
Dine Out, Fight AIDS in Fairbanks
Femme Fatale returns to Juneau
Gay AK: Facebook, Four A's, and Thanking our Allies against WAR
National News: Hate Crimes, Uniting Families, and the 'trans panic' Defense
The ICP Ball: End of a Reign
In a week, I will step down as the Imperial Crown Princess of All Alaska, and someone else will step up and begin anew. For a while now I have been regretting this event. It will signify an end to what has been evolving for me in this role, and has exploded into an incredible experience I don't want to end. A lot of what has unfolded had something, but not everything, to do with being Princess.For the past several weeks, I've been working like a dog Monday morning through about noon on Friday, then slipping into a skirt and lipstick until the new work week begins. In some ways, it's an escape from my reality as a male, while in other ways it's just a pure expression of myself as a multifaceted and talented person. As the years have evolved, what was once a rare Friday night outing in a skirt by myself, has become a fully intergrated part of who I am. The days of changing last minute in some out of the way bathroom are over. Now I'll leave the house mid-day for the whole world to see and I won't care. Where I was once paranoid that someone would find out where I lived or who I was 'out of face', now it seems the whole world knows. Where I was just another confused cross-dresser, now The Diva April Rains is becoming as prominent as her male counterpart.I've walked through stores and people have complimented me, stood in front of several hundred neighbors, associates and friends as they cheered at the end of "April's Follies", spoke with folks who say awesome things about performing in the Friday Night Diva's show, and stood there humbly as Sherry Vine and Joey Arias acknowledged me during their show. These are all circumstances I never knew I'd get to experience.For months now, emails have come in from men in circumstances similar to mine years before, where fear, disgust, self-hatred and confusion rule their lives. They want to get out of their bedrooms and experience the real world. How do they do that? How do they talk with their wives, kids, and friends about their "secret". They are relieved to know they are not alone, but realize that it's a journey of self discovery to find who they are at the core of their being. This has little to do with being gay, straight, bi or any need to have sexual re-assignment surgery or take hormones. They have simpler questions, like what bathroom to use at a club, how to cover a beard, where to find shoes and hair, and so much more.If anything, being the ICP presented a unique route for me to be more open and visible about who I am as a person. It took a role I thought was a "fantasy" and interjected it into dead center of reality. A role where I attended meetings for the corporation of the Court recognized as a female, but blended it with my male experiences to help make real world business decisions. A role where my male community recognition as a builder, fire fighter, dog musher, dad, and partner allowed me to meet with other local business owners and associates as a female, to garner support for a first-ever Valley fundraiser.As the big weekend draws closer, what I felt was an end is in fact a new beginning. The end of the 16th ICP Reign will occur, as the 17th reign steps up and another very unqiuely talented and creative person hopes to make some positive changes during her reign. While my title as Her Most "Not So Sweet, 16th, Valley Trash, Imperial Crown Princess of All Alaska" will be entered into the lineage of the Court, my title as "The Valley Trash Baroness of Big Lake" will remain ... and that's a title I have yet to develop.
This Week in LGBT Alaska 4/24/09
Juneau
SEAGLA Social Fridays (6-8 p.m.) for GLBT people and our friends over 21, at The Imperial Bar, downtown.
Fairbanks
Birthday Party/Dance and Fundraiser for PFLAG & West Valley GSA, for friends 21 and over, at Jeff's House 4/25, 9 p.m.
A celebration of life for Vat Chea, 4/26, 4 p.m. at Club Alaskan. Potluck and silent auction. Friends, 21 and over, are invited to attend; not open to the general public.
Mat-Su Valley
Mat-Su LGBT Community Center in Palmer is open M-F 5-8 p.m. (except 6-8 on Wed.) The social group meets Wednesdays, 5-6 p.m. at Vagabond Blues.
Harmony Choir meets at the Center, Thursdays 6:30 p.m.
Kenai Peninsula
Homer Community Gathering 4/30, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. at Maura's Cafe next to the Bunnell Street Art Center. Email Homer PFLAG for more info.
Anchorage
ICOAA Imperial Crown Prince and Princess Ball 4/25, doors open at 6 p.m., Ball at 7, $10 at Mad Myrna's.
Sunday worship at MCC Anchorage, 4/26, 2 p.m.
Tansgender Support Group, Sundays 6:30-8:30 p.m. at the GLCCA.
Join Identity's "Graze to Raise" team, registration deadline 4/27. Register online at Alaska Charity Walk. (The Anchorage Graze to Raise is on May 1.)
"Living With Grief: Diversity & End Of Life Care" Seminar 4/29, 9 a.m.-12:30 p.m. at the Wendy Williamson Auditorium, UAA, sponsored by Hospice of Anchorage. Rev. Van Manen, paster of MCC Anchorage, will speak on aspects of death, grief and loss in the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered communities.
Queer Night Out 4/29, 7:30 p.m. Bluegrass at Tap Root Cafe.
Where to Find GLBT Alaska - Business List
Financial Advisor
Beckwith Meade Group
3601 C Street, Penthouse West
Anchorage, AK 99503
907.561.4433 Main
907.564.6603 Direct
800.770.7000 Toll Free
866.365.9750 Facsimile
Day of Silence in Fairbanks
Anchorage Pride Prom 09
Identity grant, RAW award, Meetup & Alaskans Together
This Week in LGBT Alaska 4/17/09
Juneau
SEAGLA Social Fridays (6-8 p.m.) for GLBT people and our friends over 21, at The Imperial Bar, downtown.
Bac'untry Brothers dRagtime Revue 4/17 the Red Dawg Saloon, 8 p.m. 4/18 Hanger on the Warf, 8 p.m. 4/19 the Folk Fest, 8 p.m.
Fairbanks
Day of Silence at UAF 4/17, "The Times of Harvey Milk" showing at 6:30 p.m. in Schaible Auditorium.
Mat-Su Valley
Mat-Su LGBT Community Center in Palmer is open M-F 5-8 p.m. (except 6-8 on Wed.) The social group meets Wednesdays, 5-6 p.m. at Vagabond Blues.
The Harmony Community Choir is forming at the Center, rehearsals on Thursdays 6-7 p.m.
Anchorage
Pride Prom for ages 14-19, at the Chalet 4/17, 7-10:30 p.m.
Semi-Annual Womyn's Dance at the Snow Goose 4/17, 7:30 p.m.
SINsation drag Cabaret with Joey Arias & Sherry Vine from NYC, at 'Koots, thru 4/18, 8 p.m.
No Foolin': A Mardi Gras Fiesta fundraiser for Four A's 4/18, 7 p.m. at Mad Myrna's.
Scott Turner's Annual Bake Sale and Bake-Off for charity 4/19, 4 p.m. at Mad Myrna's.
Sunday worship at MCC Anchorage, 4/19, 2 p.m.
Tansgender Support Group, Sundays 6:30-8:30 p.m. at the GLCCA.
Alaskans Together on WAR's Defeat
WAR goes down!
Report from Mel: "23 yeas, 35 nays. Wayne Anthony Ross will NOT be Alaska's Attorney General. We fought the good fight, people, and we WON!"
WAR's anti-gay letter: pedophile jokes, criminals, "immoral in the eyes of anyone with intelligence"
"Dear LAD: (LAD??? Intentional, on your part? Or merely a Freudian slip?)I received your letter of 23 February 1993 regarding the Anchorage homosexual rights ordinance. While I am not surprised to see some of the names on your letterhead, I am most disappointed in other names thereon. I had more respect for some of you than I do now.I am in favor of repeal of the measure. I see nothing involving civil rights in this matter. We all, heterosexual or homosexual, have certain rights. This bill seems to give extra rights to a group whose lifestyle was a crime only a few years ago, and whose beliefs are certainly immoral in the eyes of anyone with some semblance of intelligence and moral character.It is a shame that you folks don't have some causes you could become involved in that are of benefit to society in general. Instead, you support degenerates. No wonder the legal profession is treated with less respect than we wish.If, as you apparently believe, morality is not based on long-standing God-given and God-instilled principles, but is something that changes from time to time based on public perception of right and wrong, then that is even more reason for you to allow this referendum to go to a vote of the people. After all, isn't it your position that public morality is based upon whatever the public decides?None of you has done anything publicly (to my knowledge) to attempt to protect the millions of lives of innocent children killed each year through abortion, yet you collectively contribute $5,000 to the cause of sexual perversion. It is quite disheartening to me to see my fellow members of our honorable profession display such a lack of proper priorities.Wayne Anthony Ross(from page 7 of the May-June 1993 Alaska Bar Rag)